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Hard to Love

On loving someone when you’re not “feeling it.” Some  people are hard to love for whatever reason. Maybe they are immature, or selfish, or mean. Maybe they remind…

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Love at First Sight

On loving someone the first time we meet: Most times when we meet people we don’t feel safe because we are in unknown territory—we just don’t know that…

Your Brain on Trauma

A few months ago, a pickup truck turned in front of a motor scooter just 50 feet ahead of me on my own bike. The rider braked but slammed…